how would you go about trying to introduce extreme music (not as in hardcore, but as in the outer reaches as an art form, including real quiet minimal stuff like lowercase) to somebody with no experience of music as anything but pure entertainment?
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many people listen to music as often as i do, but with a significantly more limited range. perhaps there are people who have listened to music for double the total length i have, but have heard almost no albums. only Playlists and Personal Autogenerated Recommended We Think You’ll Just Love It Brand New 50 Million Play Artist Mixes. "music is my life!", though! but during conversation about music anything outside of their microscopic comfort zone is met with the digital equivalent of a blank stare. generic indifference with (likely unintended) implied ignoring. anything not normal enough is often met with anger or derision, no matter how you frame the subject. even people not involved in the conversation might start mocking you, even more annoyingly people who decide it's "pretentious" from already hearing about it before either from someone who tried to show it to them, or from perceiving it as some kind of trivia piece they saw on youtube or tiktok or something
WHY does it trigger such emotions, though? why is it that interesting things made in interesting ways confuses and offends people? we're not talking about 2010s /mu/ elitist discussion tactics, we're talking about normal conversation. it doesn't make sense to me. off the top of my head, all i can think of for music that made me think negatively of those who showed it to me are artists that signify very specific subcultures (e.g. hyperpop subgenres) or music which exudes certain personalities i can't ignore (e.g. hobo johnson). you'll occasionally come across someone who listens to punk, metal or hardstyle, something specific that most normalfriends wouldn't know much about in the first place. of course, those people will be more open to extremes and be easier to talk about extreme music with. WRONG. they love punk but a band like siege is too scary and non-musical. they love metal but a band like cephalotripsy is too scary and non-musical. they love hardstyle and gabber but nasenbluten is too scary and non-musical. they're the same kind of small-range people, it's just their range is in a different area. it's probably just from their parents
the obvious way is to ease into more extreme music, which is like some kind of long-term psychological operation for the sake of possibly getting one person to maybe like cooler music. you could try to use something more melodic, some kind of ambient or rock-band based music with crossover appeal. something normally gay like the caretaker or william basinski could work here (ironically, out of the "big" names those 2 are the most outright literal pretentious artists) since their music simply just sounds "nice" and their releases have simple concepts. velvet underground and brian eno seemed to do the trick for many people pre-internet. but let's just assume someone does listen to these and likes it. a lot of experimental rawk can be firmly rooted in "acceptable" music while messing around with its foundations. but then what
what do?
how do you get past that giant barrier of "um... this isn't even music?" that plagues anything avant-garde that gets any amount of exposure to the general public? if i don't even understand what makes these people so repulsed, i don't know what i'm meant to do in the first place.. occasionally something escapes containment such as whitehouse's why you never became a dancer, throbbing gristle's hamburger lady or karl mayer's ep. people are clearly interested in these beyond the surface level "haha wow creepy stuff, huh!" and they're making some kind of real contact between their minds and the music, but it's like they can't make the connections and figure out that they're enjoying the music as art and for the pure qualities of its sounds. they find it interesting for probably the same reason as me, but they're not aware of it. how do i explain it? should we kill these people or brainwash them?
is this the example of super-mainstream exposure of with absolutely no sense of novelty, gimmickry or attachment to some soundtrack, event, etc? laurie anderson's o superman doesn't count because it's just an a capella pop song with effects and then a synth to make it not a capella and also it sucks
i have not proofread ANY of this and i will not fix anything i've accidentally stated twice or where i've veered off into a differentpoint
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